I Look Like Me A Celebration of SelfLove edition by Paula K Dieck Religion Spirituality eBooks
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Paula was adopted as an infant. She was "chosen" and therefore she was special. For the most part she had what seemed to be an idyllic life. On the surface she appeared to be happy, but on the inside she did not feel like she was good enough. She had been abandoned at birth. Every child experiences a time in their life when they feel like they are not good enough. For some, the feeling is temporary, but for others, that feeling becomes a belief, affecting all aspects of life. I Look Like Me is an inspirational story of transformation. Join Paula as she shares her journey, full of twists and turns, from low self-esteem/self-worth, through the process of discovery, to eventually finding self-love.
I Look Like Me A Celebration of SelfLove edition by Paula K Dieck Religion Spirituality eBooks
Author and adoptee, Paula Dieck, has written a thoughtful and introspective account of her life as an adopted person from childhood through adult life. She vividly describes her conservative but loving upbringing in Wisconsin with her adoptive family. They created the best family life possible, but, like many adoptees, Paula sensed a difference between herself and her non-biological kinfolk.This work is a testimony to the fact that no matter how good or positive our adoptive lives have been, no matter the level of love and effort provided in our environment, no matter how fine and upstanding our adoptive families are, it is no fault of their own that most adopted individuals of any age and gender live with a feeling of separateness, as if they're on an island and can see beyond but can never fully mingle with their natural born counterparts. There’s always something missing.
Whether or not our lives would be better or worse if we'd been a biological/non-adopted family member isn't the point. What matters is how adoptees view the world and function in society. We sometimes may have unresolved separation issues which lead to commitment issues later in life. We may have an aversion to change or instead thrive changes and instability. We want to reach a happy balance, but finding a satisfying
medium we can trust is the great challenge.
Ms. Dieck did this by finding a life coach with whom she could share her perceptions in a safe setting and receive feedback about her behavior patterns and reactions. She bettered her relationships with loved ones and gained more self assurance when negotiating challenging situations, by learning how to love and accept herself first.
This memoir, I Look Like Me: A Celebration of Self-Love, is a must-read for any adoptee and anyone who wishes to understand the perspective of adopted adults in modern society. This book is positive and promotes compassion even when faced with criticism or indifference from our family members and loved ones. We all have unique stories, wishes and goals. Reading about how Paula Dieck achieved hers is inspiring and motivating.
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I Look Like Me A Celebration of SelfLove edition by Paula K Dieck Religion Spirituality eBooks Reviews
While "I Look Like Me" shares the path Paula travelled to find her happy place, the reader needs to step back to see where in their healing process they are and use Paulas steps as one set of examples to find theirs. What I learned from Paula's story is about the depth of loss adoptees feel and to reach out to help or comfort when possible. There is no right path for everyone, and we may choose constructive and destructive steps along the way. Prayer and and listening to the subtle guidance from angels sent to redirect when necessary is a positive approach. Recognizing you are not alone is another as there are friends and professionals willing to listen and offer their support. Finding your true happy place may take personal endurance and time, but whatever the obstacles - it's worth it when the reward is learning to love yourself, like Paula has. She is an inspiration to all of us to love ourselves, with all the quirks that make us special!
From the moment a child is born, family and friends enjoy playing the universal "who does she look like" guessing game. Father's chin? Mother's dimples? Grandma's skin coloring?
The author shares her journey of self-discovery that got her to the point that she could say with conviction, "I look like me."
We adopted our daughter when she was eight months old. Even though she was Latina and I'm half Japanese, we shared the same olive skin and dark hair and eyes. When Cynthia was a toddler, strangers in the park would often comment, "Your daughter looks just like you." I would reply, "Oh, do you really think so? She's adopted." Now, especially after reading Paula's book, I shudder at these comments and the hurt and harm they may have caused.
I recommend this book for adoptees, adoptive parents and anyone who is in a search for self identity.
I know Paula personally so couldn't wait to read her book, having heard firsthand the personal process of writing her story. Paula possesses a quiet strength that shines just bright enough to easily, gradually light our way to a better understanding. It was fun to learn more about Paula my friend ... I didn't expect I would read so deeply into her soul. She educated and intrigued me as she shared her feelings not just about BEING adopted but FEELING adopted, despite having such loving parents. Until I read Paula's story, I didn't realize a 'happy' adoption could still feel unsettling. Her courage in every aspect of her life's journey described in her book is exemplary and the love for her family that she held onto along the way was inspiring. I hope that adoptees fortunate enough to have Paula's book cross their path will read her wonderful childhood-to-adulthood story and feel inspired to explore your own in a similar way, knowing others not only look like you, but feel like you. Peace, Love, Blessings...KKO
Life has a way of giving you what you need at the most interesting times...having met Paula the other night...and heard her talk about her book and her journey, I knew I wanted to read it, but was unprepared for the impact the reading would have on me. The correlation of abandonment issues from adoption and abuse startled me! One of the best parts of reading Paula's book for me was the kick in the butt restart of my healing process. I had 13 yrs of therapy, which was good and did me a lot of good, but the life coaches that Paula had helped her face some life challenges and realities that were in her way! They have been in my way too...so thank you Paula for sharing your story, and your growth and the beautiful woman you are! This was a wonderful read, and I will recommend to many that I know could use a nudge in the right direction.....
Author and adoptee, Paula Dieck, has written a thoughtful and introspective account of her life as an adopted person from childhood through adult life. She vividly describes her conservative but loving upbringing in Wisconsin with her adoptive family. They created the best family life possible, but, like many adoptees, Paula sensed a difference between herself and her non-biological kinfolk.
This work is a testimony to the fact that no matter how good or positive our adoptive lives have been, no matter the level of love and effort provided in our environment, no matter how fine and upstanding our adoptive families are, it is no fault of their own that most adopted individuals of any age and gender live with a feeling of separateness, as if they're on an island and can see beyond but can never fully mingle with their natural born counterparts. There’s always something missing.
Whether or not our lives would be better or worse if we'd been a biological/non-adopted family member isn't the point. What matters is how adoptees view the world and function in society. We sometimes may have unresolved separation issues which lead to commitment issues later in life. We may have an aversion to change or instead thrive changes and instability. We want to reach a happy balance, but finding a satisfying
medium we can trust is the great challenge.
Ms. Dieck did this by finding a life coach with whom she could share her perceptions in a safe setting and receive feedback about her behavior patterns and reactions. She bettered her relationships with loved ones and gained more self assurance when negotiating challenging situations, by learning how to love and accept herself first.
This memoir, I Look Like Me A Celebration of Self-Love, is a must-read for any adoptee and anyone who wishes to understand the perspective of adopted adults in modern society. This book is positive and promotes compassion even when faced with criticism or indifference from our family members and loved ones. We all have unique stories, wishes and goals. Reading about how Paula Dieck achieved hers is inspiring and motivating.
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